Review of the First Interview

发表于 更新于 分类于 Disqus： 本文字数： 4.7k 阅读时长 ≈ 8 分钟

The language of this article is set to English, not only to improve my English expressing skills but also blocking people with bad interests and protecting the interviewee’s privacy. And the interviewee will be kept anonymous, just to review the perspectives and shortcomings of the structure and content of my questions.

What Have I Asked During This Interview? (In order of time)

  • Are you persisting in memorizing unfamiliar English words recently?
  • When will you go the next day, and what transportation will you take, and the luggage size, needing assistance?
  • And I told the interviewee the bitcoin and blockchain knowledge I’ve gained in the last two days.
  • How about the life during the lockdown? How about the relationship among the dormmates? And how to solve the problem I’m mostly concerned with, taking showers? Any emotion of depression at that time?
  • Are you volunteering to disinfect the dormitory?
  • The frequency of playing steam games, are you interested?
  • How would you feel if your dormmate accuses you of your absence of the regular meal of the dorm? Will the words said by the dormmate hurt you? If conflicts began to raise, how will you solve them?
  • How do you feel about the bad news and tragedies caused by the policy of the evil CCP? Who is wrong essentially? Absolutely the politics structure leads to these tragedies.
  • Who on earth caused the violate issue in Tangshan recently? What problem leads to the security problem?
  • Will you run or study abroad in the future? What affects your choice? Are you planning to have a CET6/IELTS/TOFEL test in the future?
  • Is the security a serious problem across the US? How about countries in the EU and Japan? Don’t trust the medias full of lies!
  • How about the education problem of your descendants, and your parents?
  • What city will you root on in the future?
  • How about the Probabilities and Mathematical Statics course in the last term? Was there any pressure with learning? How much time would you cost every week in average?
  • Why do you fail in the GaoKao? How about the rules and schedules of time in your school? (6:20-12:00, 2:30-10:40, 10:45sleep, and went home for an afternoon in Sunday, week after week, no extra time to manage for oneself, two times of tests every week)
  • I told how the interviewee is in my eyes(introverted, sensitive, caring), and asked how she regarded herself(forgetting, sensitive), and asked how I was in her eyes(average in EQ, talkative)
  • About the climate of this summer and whether is it suitable for hanging out this summer, and the comparison with summer, 2021
  • About learning France, German, and English, and we worked out a result that English is the easiest language to learn among these languages
  • Is Maugham hating women? The brief plot of Veil, and some comments on a female boxing.
  • About the sunset glow, so beautiful, never have I witnessed this kind of scene with an another person in the past 4 months
  • About the classmates with great programming skills
  • About Wang Zhian, and how should I do some progress on my interviewing skills
  • And those above is the framework of my interviewing

My comments on this interview

​ What leaves a deep impression on me is that she said I’m talkative(laugh&cry🤣). It’s the first time that I received this kind of comment or evaluation. In the past time I’ve received remarks of being to introverted, and I always wanted to improve my expression skills. However, bad habits die hard. Maybe I should take more attention on my speaking speed and the contents of what I say. Thankfully she didn’t consider the questions of the interview boring, making me a little relieved. I believe there is a long way to go.

​ Truly I like the girl, the way she responds to me(maybe also other people) with an interesting tongue, and her caring personality. The behaviour of her on the Wechat chat box describes a lovely, interesting, vivid and thoughtful attractive girl, while the differences comes at the time of meeting her face to face, a little clumsy and introverted. This kind of reaction and differences made me a little losing my head when asking her questions and find questions in different dimensions. In a word, no enough feedback, though🤣.

​ This interview has also exposed my shortcomings. When contacting by Wechat, I always have lots of questions and want to keep in touch with her to ask. Chatting online makes me curious, and interested to see how she thinks and feels. But in the face-to-face connection, I don’t have such kind of curiosity, and feeling more awkward for not enough questions coming into my mind at that time. Maybe I should take more exercise on feeling more open when facing others and asking more and more meaningful questions. Improve the speed of reaction and be more nature but having certain aims when communication with others.

​ This girl is not a pinky, but is not a protester of CCP, either. She appears to be a politic-not-concerning person. But when I told her why the crime incidents are so often in Tangshan, she seemed to be a little delighted. I think that I have the ability to help her have more insight into CCP, and destroy the foggy propaganda CCP is broadcasting. But firstly I should develop my understandings of CCP, economics, politics, history and the society. There’s a long way to go.😎

​ My another plain wish is that the girl will be more open, more expressions, more feedback when having interactions with me. This is a precious girl, and I like her. I hope a better, more lovely her in the next meeting.

Another Things to Say

Liberate Hong Kong, revolution of our times. Thanks for the contributions done by HongKongers, I vote for them.